Monday, December 31, 2018

Shows 2018

Seen since October 1st:

On Broadway

  • Lifespan of a Fact (with Kathryn)
  • The Play That Goes Wrong (with Julie)
  • To Kill a Mockingbird (with my mom, Louise, and most of NYMAAC)
Off-Broadway
  • Mother of the Maid (with Kathryn and Hillary)
  • Wild Goose Dreams (with Kathryn)
  • Puffs (for the third time, in honor of Louise's visit, and Kate's finishing reading the HP series)
Off-Off-Broadway
  • Squeaky Bicycle Fall Reading Lab: Sioux Falls (with Kathryn)
Also:
  • Book launch party for Enough by Emily Easton
  • Chagall, Lissitzky, Malevich: The Russian Avant-Garde in Vitebsk, 1918-1922 at the Jewish Museum (private guided tour by Jonah)
Check my Q1, Q2, and Q3 posts for the rest of the year. The best things I saw in 2018 were Sweeney Todd at the Barrow Street Theater and Gustav Klimt at Atelier des Lumieres.

Monday, October 8, 2018

Things I read, watched, saw, and did in Q3 2018

In July, August, and September 2018, I read:

  • Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders
  • The Secret History by Donna Tartt
  • Call Me By Your Name by AndrĂ© Aciman
  • The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot
  • Less by Andrew Sean Greer
  • A very small amount of Ulysses by James Joyce
I watched:
  • Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee season 10: Ellen DeGeneres, Kate McKinnon, Dana Carvey
  • Shameless season 7
  • Call the Midwife season 7
  • Orange Is the New Black season 6
  • The West Wing rewatch of season 5 episodes 7-16 along with the West Wing Weekly Podcast
  • The Americans seasons 5-6
  • Fargo season 3
  • The Good Place season 2
  • Queer Eye season 1
  • West World season 1 (with Cricket)
  • How to Get Away With Murder season 1 episodes 1-5
  • Disenchantment season 1 episodes 1 and 2
  • GLOW season 1 episodes 1 and 2
  • Call Me By Your Name (with Kate)
  • Coco
  • Half of Jackie (on a plane, fell asleep)
  • Star Wars: Episode VIII: The Last Jedi
  • Thor: Ragnarok
  • Vicky Christina Barcelona (on a plane, stayed awake for the whole thing)
I saw:
  • Carousel at the Imperial Theater
  • Twelfth Night at the Delacorte Theater (The Public Theater's Shakespeare in the Park)
  • Girl From the North Country at the Public Theater
  • Gustav Klimt at Atelier de Lumieres (Paris)
  • Into the Woods in concert at the Laurie Beechman Theater
  • Downton Abbey: The Exhibition
  • Gotham Girls Roller Derby
  • Gay Games 10 Gala Concert at Casino de Paris and Closing Ceremonies at the Gay Games Village
Also, I:
  • Went to Paris, Normandy, and Antwerp! Performed at Stade Jean Bouin, Casino de Paris, Place de Bitche, Jardins du Palais Royal, and Jardins du Champs-Elysees as part of Gay Games 10
  • Went to the Finger Lakes (Skaneateles, Ithaca, and Marathon)
  • Went to Philly for a wedding (Kristin & Greg)
  • Was visited by Laura & Beth, my sister Lauren, and Sara, and spent a day bookshopping with Mary
  • Spent Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur with family
  • Was photographed by Max Kristula-Green for a project
  • Helped Cricket move
  • Went on one (1) date
  • Attended two housewarmings (Kathryn, Cam) and a birthday party (Christina)
  • Marched in the Montclair, NJ Independence Day Parade
  • Wrote 2 articles for my freelance job
  • Posted 24 doodles and 3 tiny sinks on my Instagram and sold many things (mostly Long Island stickers) on my and Kathryn's Redbubble store

Sunday, July 22, 2018

Things I read, watched, saw, and did in Q2 2018

In April, May, and June 2018, I read:

  • The Martian by Andy Weir
  • The Omnivore's Dilemma by Michael Pollan
  • Calypso by David Sedaris
  • The Professor and the Madman by Simon Winchester
I watched:
  • Shameless seasons 5 and 6
  • Call the Midwife seasons 5 and 6
  • Orphan Black season 5
  • Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt season 4 part 1
  • The Handmaid's Tale season 2
  • The History of Comedy (CNN) all
  • Queer Eye season 1 episodes 1 and 2
  • The West Wing rewatch of season 4 episodes 21-23, season 5 episodes 1-6 along with The West Wing Weekly Podcast
  • The Mary Tyler Moore Show rewatch of seasons 2 and 3
  • Rhoda rewatch of season 1 episodes 1-5
  • My Next Guest Needs No Introduction With David Letterman: Tina Fey
  • Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee: Jim Carrey, Jimmy Fallon, Sarah Jessica Parker
  • John Mulaney: Kid Gorgeous
  • Tig Notaro: Happy to Be Here
  • Ali Wong: Hard Knock Wife
  • Steve Martin and Martin Short: An Evening You Will Forget for the Rest of Your Life
  • Hannah Gadsby: Nanette
  • Set It Up
  • The Martian
I saw:
  • My Fair Lady at the Vivian Beaumont Theater (Lincoln Center)
  • Hello Dolly (with Bernadette Peters) at the Shubert Theater
  • Angels in America parts 1 and 2 at the Neil Simon Theater
  • Boys in the Band at the Booth Theater
  • Othello at the Delacorte Theater (The Public Theater's Shakespeare in the Park)
  • Follies at Astoria Performing Arts Center
  • In the Heights at the John W Engeman Theater in Northport, NY
  • Peter Hujar: Speed of Life at the Morgan Library & Museum
  • New York Philharmonic in Prospect Park
  • Vanity's Vanities IV: Reverse Cowgirl at the Slipper Room
  • James Adler in recital at the Yamaha Artist Services Piano Salon
  • Choral Chameleon at the Irondale Center
  • Ready Player One
  • RBG
  • Solo: A Star Wars Story
Also, I:
  • Went on one (1) date
  • Played 2 concerts with QUO and 1 with the LGBAC Symphonic Band
  • Marched in 4 parades and played 2 other gigs with the LGBAC Marching Band
  • Stepped down as QUO's president and became QUO's manager (which is the job I've been doing anyway)
  • Wrote 2 articles for my freelance job
  • Booked a trip to Paris for August and learned a very small amount of French on Duolingo
  • Went to Woodstock/Saugerties with my family for Fathers Day
  • Traveled to Baltimore, DC, Philly, and New Hope, PA with the band
  • Was visited by friends Shay (and Quoia and their adorable son Justin), Adrienne, and Laura (with special guest Beth) in NYC
  • Turned 38 and managed to get a bunch of gifts despite being 38
  • Achieved the milestones of 13 years in NYC and 2 years at my job (these actually happened at the end of March but I forgot to mention them last quarter)
  • Posted 18 doodles and 6 tiny sinks on Instagram, and sold a lot of stuff on my and Kathryn's redbubble store
  • Won the Harry Potter and the Cursed Child lottery 0 times and lost a trillion times

The Secret History: half a book review

I am half-way through Donna Tartt's The Secret History, which I am reading on a 15-year-old recommendation. Actually, I think the recommendation was of another book of hers, The Little Friend, which had just come out at the time, but a copy of The Secret History was in the right place at the right time and so that is the one I'm reading.

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The book was written in 1992, which doesn't seem like a long time ago but I must acknowledge that it was. The book has aged relatively well. It is set at a college, and although my college experience began six years later and included things like cell phones and the internet, Tartt's depiction seems very familiar.

Social norms are another hallmark of the times, and the book holds up for the most part. There is a character in the book that is misogynistic, homophobic, and either ignorant or intolerant of anything he finds to be different. Although the character is beloved by the narrator and the others in the core group, his bigotry is regarded with appropriate disgust by his peers and by Tartt. There's a lot to say about this character and the relationships surrounding him, as the story really centers on him, but suffice it to say he is seen for what he is.

There is only one stinging aspect of the book that struck me as slightly off, and that is the subtle perpetuation of the idea of gay men as sexual predators. Of course we see the problematic character described above at his homophobic worst, but there is also a hint of homophobia in the narrator, whom I believe we're intended to trust (I mean, he's a compulsive liar, but he's being very frank with the reader). The narrator openly admits (to the reader) that he is uncomfortable around gay men. Admitting it is healthy enough, I suppose, but what is the nature of this discomfort? It is unveiled for us when a friend of his ("a homosexual") makes a pass at him. All turns out well in the end, but the narrator says that he knew this moment was "inevitable." He "knew" there would come a time when his gay friend would come on to him. Why? Because the narrator is narcissistic? By all accounts, the narrator has a low opinion of himself, so I'd say no. Because there's existing sexual tension between them throughout the book? None that has been mentioned. Because the gay character is promiscuous or has a large appetite for sex? Again, not that we've seen.

I can only surmise that the narrator feels that his friend, being a gay man, is predisposed to want sex from any man. Gay men are roaming the streets looking for sex and it's only a matter of time until they get you. This is perhaps a very 1992 attitude (indeed it's a 2018 attitude in many places, and there are even maps that will show you where), when there were very few flattering, honest, or even innocuous depictions of gay men to be found. I would expect a woman to be less likely to think in this way, as they are not in the perceived line of fire and can therefore be more clear-headed about it. Tartt either bought into the stereotype, or, in writing from the perspective of a straight man, chose to shed a layer of sensitivity.

Although I harp on it, the moment was fleeting, and the book has been a great read overall. I'm looking forward to the second half.

Monday, April 23, 2018

Around two years ago I went on a date. It's nothing I make a habit of doing, but the critical elements aligned and I found myself heading to one of Brooklyn's many brunch districts to meet a man. The date was job interview format, and he asked me when I was last in a relationship. The answer was "seven years ago," and he was shocked. He was also shocked that I ordered a Coke (as opposed to a Diet Coke) and admitted to watching "Madam Secretary" (which, fair), so obviously this did not blossom into a relationship. My answer to his question remained seven until it became eight, and now nine.

This past fall I fired up my OK Cupid account and lined myself up a few disappointments, among them a guy with whom I almost had a date a few times, but we just kept missing each other. When it seemed like we were belaboring the point, we just stopped texting each other and I went back to my baseline of not dating.

This past Saturday, I got a text that said, "Hey there! I have your phone number in my phone but I can't remember how we met :-/". I scrolled up to see the text history and it turned out to be OK Cupid guy (not judgmental brunch guy, of course, who will not feature again in this story). I explained to him who I was and how we almost met last year, and he seemed keen to try to meet up again. So far, we haven't gotten any closer to meeting than we did last time, but now I feel like I'm doing more than nothing toward the vague goal of not dying alone.

To be continued.

Sunday, April 1, 2018

First quarter media/art consumption

So far in 2018, I've read:

  • It's All Relative, by A.J. Jacobs
  • The Lady in the Tower, by Alison Weir
  • The Uncollected David Rakoff
  • A Wrinkle in Time, Madeleine L'Engle
I've watched:
  • Downton Abbey (full series rewatch)
  • Zach Morris is Trash (all)
  • Will & Grace (season 9 episodes 8-15)
  • Episodes (seasons 4-5)
  • Black Mirror (season 4)
  • The West Wing (season 4, episodes 12-20, rewatch along with The West Wing Weekly podcast)
  • Shameless (season 3, season 4 episodes 1-8)
  • Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (season 3)
  • The Tudors (seasons 1-2 rewatch)
  • Mary Tyler Moore (season 1 episodes 1-15 rewatch)
  • Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee (13 episodes from various seasons)
  • Law & Order: Special Victims Unit (a few random Alex Cabot episodes, rewatch inspired by jury duty)
  • Queen Elizabeth's Secret Agents (episodes 1-3)
  • The Windsors (episodes 1-3)
  • Elizabeth I (episode 1 rewatch)
  • Altered Carbon (episode 1)
  • Mindhunter (episode 1)
  • Wormwood (episode 1)
  • Fred Armisen: Standup for Drummers
  • My Next Guest Needs No Introduction With David Letterman: Barack Obama
I've seen:
  • Guster (College Street Music Hall in New Haven)
  • Andrew Bird (Capitol Theater in Park Chester)
  • The Stonewall Chorale (Church of the Holy Apostles in Manhattan)
  • Neil deGrasse Tyson (BAM)
  • Louisiana Philharmonic (Carnegie Hall)
  • 54 Does 54 (54 Below)
  • The Band's Visit (Ethel Barrymore Theater)
  • Sweeney Todd (Barrow Street Theater)
  • Harry Potter and the Cursed Child: Part 1 (Lyric Theater)
  • Kings (Public Theater)
  • Or Current Resident (Theater for the New City, Squeaky Bicycle Productions)
  • Modigliani Unmasked (Jewish Museum)
  • Fraunces Tavern Museum
  • A Wrinkle in Time
I've done:
  • A trip to Utah & Wyoming to visit Lauren
  • 2 trips to New Haven to visit Sara & Dan
  • Jury Duty
  • 2 QUO concerts
  • 2 articles for my freelance job
  • Duolingo Japanese full curriculum (started in September), started Spanish (49% fluency)
  • Around 20 drawings I saw fit to post to Instagram

Saturday, January 27, 2018

TV consumed in 2017

Series I started watching in 2017:
Steven Universe (seasons 1-4)
Black Mirror (series 1-3)
Stranger Things (seasons 1 and 2)
Shameless (seasons 1 and 2)
Victoria (season 1)
The Handmaid's Tale (season 1)
The People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story (season 1)
Bates Motel (season 1)
Master of None (season 1)
The Good Place (season 1)
The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel (season 1)
The Eighties
The Seventies
The Sixties
The Keepers
Jane the Virgin (episodes 1-14)
Riverdale (episodes 1-4)
Broad City (episodes 1-4)
A Series of Unfortunate Events (episodes 1-3)
Travelers (episodes 1-3)
This Is Us (episodes 1-3)
Schitt's Creek (episode 1)
Ozark (episode 1)
The Santa Clarita Diet (episode 1)
13 Reasons Why (episode 1)
Girlfriend's Guide to Divorce (episode 1)
Reign (episode 1)

Series I continued watching in 2017:
Will & Grace (season 9, episodes 1-7)
Orange Is the New Black (season 5)
The Americans (season 4)
Orphan Black (season 4)
The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt (season 3)
Broadchurch (season 3)
The Man in the High Castle (season 2)
Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (season 2)
The Crown (season 2)

Series I rewatched in 2017:
The West Wing (seasons 1-3, along with The West Wing Weekly podcast)